Iran never Again

 Iran Never Again, Parisa Daniel, Independently Published, 2021

This is the inspirational, but difficult-to-read, story of a woman growing up in the Jewish community in present-day Iran.

The author got little, or no, support from her mother, while growing up, because of her gender. When it cam time for her (arranged) marriage, Omid, also part of the Jewish community, said Yes only because of the expected size of her dowry. When it was less than expected, Omid basically ignored her. Love, or the author's feelings on the matter, were never considered. A Jewish woman falling for, and marrying, a Muslim man would have been a Major Scandal.

Daniel was a talented artist, and made a living as a graphic artist. Giving birth to a daughter made Ovid dislike her even more, as if it was her fault. The author spent a month in Israel, visiting relatives. For the first time, she felt like she could breathe normally. The relatives urged her to get a divorce, and stay in Israel. She is very tempted, but goes back to try and save her marriage. When she gives birth to a second daughter, no one is at the hospital with her.

After several years, Daniel is forced to flee Iran; the government feels that she is a dangerous person because she speaks up for the less fortunate. With two small children, she is forced to undertake a harrowing, overland journey through the mountains. They eventually reach Israel.

It takes a long time, but the family is eventually established in Israel. The girls are in school, so Daniel goes to a doctor about persistent chest pain. The diagnosis is: Stage 4 Cancer.

To say that the author was treated like garbage in Iran is too generous. She was treated worse than garbage, but overcame, and made something of herself. This is a very inspirational story for anyone in a similar situation, and is very much worth reading.